Strong Andfeminine

Hi, I'm Ashton. I'm an online fitness coach to women all over the world, and a personal trainer in Durham. I help women feel strong, confident and completely at home in the gym, eating well and actually enjoying it. No fad diets, no food guilt, and no, you won't get bulky. Promise.

Taking clientsOnline worldwide In person in Durham
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  • DurhamIn person at UltraFlex
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Ashton Alderson, female personal trainer at UltraFlex Durham Ashton AldersonCoach & personal trainer
Ashton Alderson, female personal trainer, in the gym
Meet your coach

Hi, I'm Ashton

I'm an online coach to women around the world, and a personal trainer based at UltraFlex Durham, specialising in fat loss, muscle building and confidence building. I qualified as a PT in 2023 after six years as a Specialist Occupational Therapist in mental health, so I coach the whole picture: your physique, your mindset, and the habits that make results stick.

I've been on both sides of this. I grew up competing in national-level gymnastics and cheerleading, and I still compete now. I'm a WABBA Bikini Pro, WABBA Miss Bikini Model Universe Venice 2024 and IFBA Miss Tyneside 2024. I've stepped on stage 17 times across 11 competitions and placed top five in every single one. So I know what it takes to diet for a goal. And I know the scarier bit too: eating more, gaining weight on purpose, and trusting the process. I've felt it, and I'll walk you through it.

17Times on stage
Top 5In every competition
7First-place finishes
2Overall champion titles
  • Qualified Personal Trainer & Online Coach (2023)
  • WABBA Bikini Pro
  • 6 years as a Specialist Occupational Therapist, mental health
  • International competitor: 5 times, incl. NPC Pro Qualifier win

Read my full profile: qualifications, competition record and how I coach →

Sound familiar?

Doing everything right and still stuck?

Most women I work with are already putting the effort in. They just haven't been given the right plan yet.

Start with a chat
  1. You're training hard but not looking or feeling any different
  2. You're eating too little for how active you are, and progress has stalled
  3. You've been through the fad diets and none of them stuck
  4. You start plans full of motivation and drop them within two weeks
  5. You're worried lifting weights and eating more will make you "bulky"

Nodding at two or more? That's exactly who I work with.

Tell me about you
The Ashton Fitness way

What my brand stands for

So you know exactly what you're getting with me. Here it is, both sides.

Always

  • Strength and femininity coexist. You don't have to pick one
  • Aesthetics AND performance. It's okay to want to look good
  • Food is fuel. A positive relationship with eating, built to last
  • Confidence in what your body can do, not just how it looks
  • There's more than one right way to move your body

Never

  • Crash diets
  • Guilt around food, ever
  • Shrinking yourself to meet someone else's expectations
  • Rubbishing other styles of training
  • Extreme physiques sold as "normal" goals
What I offer

Education. Structure. Accountability.

That's my whole formula. You'll learn why it works, get a routine that fits your life, and I'll keep you going long past the two-week wall, cheering the whole way.

Worldwide

Online Coaching

Training and nutrition on your phone with weekly check-ins from me, wherever you are in the world. Built for shift patterns, commutes, time zones and real life, because I've lived that schedule myself.

More about online coaching
In person, Durham

1:1 Personal Training

Face-to-face sessions with me at UltraFlex Durham. Learn to lift properly, train with purpose, and actually enjoy it.

Personal training in Durham
Results-led

Transformation Plans

Structured blocks with clear targets and tracked progress. Enough food to fuel your training, a plan you can stick to, and results you can see.

See client results
Free guides

Learn it properly

Free, friendly, straight-talking guides written by me. Start with whichever question is holding you back.

The Glute Guide

The six exercises that actually build glutes, plus two ready-made sessions.

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Will Lifting Make Me Bulky?

The myth that keeps women off the weights, answered honestly.

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Beginner's Guide to Lifting

How to start lifting weights with zero experience, including your first routine.

Read the guide →

The Protein Guide

How much you actually need, and how to hit it without living on chicken.

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High-Protein Recipes

Twenty-five breakfasts, lunches, dinners and snacks with macros and my tips on each.

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Eating More But Looking Leaner

Why eating more can leave you leaner, and how to do it without gaining fat.

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PT Or Online Coaching?

An honest comparison: cost, accountability and who each one suits.

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Free 4-Week Gym Plan For Women

A complete beginner plan: three sessions, every set and rep, and how to progress.

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Strength Training In Your 40s & 50s

Why lifting matters most now, perimenopause, and how to start.

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Training Around Your Cycle

Why some weeks feel unstoppable and others do not, and how to train through both.

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How Much Does A Personal Trainer Cost?

Honest North East prices, and how to tell if it is worth it.

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How To Use MyFitnessPal

Set it up properly, weigh food accurately, and track in four minutes a day.

Read the guide →

What To Eat Before & After Training

Pre and post workout meals, when to eat them, and the reasoning behind it.

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3-Day Meal Plan

Three full days of high-protein meals with prep notes and one shopping list.

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Fat Loss Without Crash Diets

How fat loss really works, and why the diets kept failing you.

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How to Beat Gym Anxiety

Walk into any gym like you belong there, because you do.

Read the guide →

How to Start a Diet and Stick to It

Why most diets end in week three, and how to start one you can still be on in March.

Read the guide →

After a Bad Day With Food

One heavy day cannot undo a good week. Here is the arithmetic, and what to do next.

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Mental Health and the Gym

An honest look at what training can and cannot do, from a trainer rather than a doctor.

Read the guide →
Anywhere in the world

Online coaching, with me in your pocket

Not in Durham? Doesn't matter. Plenty of my clients aren't even in the UK.

Online coaching is everything I do with my gym clients, delivered through an app to whatever gym you train in, in whatever time zone you live in. Built for women whose weeks don't behave: shifts, commutes, kids, travel.

I trained through years of night shifts and a monster commute myself, so your plan bends around your life, not the other way round.
Clients in
  • UK
  • USA & Canada
  • Australia & NZ
  • Europe
  • Middle East
Every week, personally

What's included

  • Your own training programme in a proper coaching app
  • Video demos for every exercise so there's no gym-floor guessing
  • Nutrition that fits your life with no banned foods and no guilt
  • A real weekly check-in from me not an automated one
  • Message support between check-ins for form checks and wobbles
  • Works in any time zone check in and message when it suits you
  • Everything explained so the results stay yours for good
Real women, real results

Transformations

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Where I'll train you

In person in Durham. Online, anywhere.

One brilliant gym if you're local, and the same coaching through the app if you're not. Either way, I'm with you every rep.

UltraFlex Gym training floor in Durham
Durham
UltraFlex Gym

Top-class kit and a proper training atmosphere. Sessions available early mornings, daytime and evenings to fit around work and shifts.

Train in Durham
The Ashton Fitness online coaching community together at a group event
Everywhere else
Online coaching, worldwide

Your gym, your time zone, my coaching. Clients across the UK, the US, Australia, Europe and the Middle East train with me through the app.

Coach me online
Getting started

How it works

01

Book a free consult

Fill in the form below and I'll arrange a friendly, no-pressure chat about your goals and history. No sales pitch, no cold DMs, no judgement, ever.

02

Get your plan

Training and nutrition built around your actual life. Shifts, nights out, eating out, the lot. Reviewed and adjusted as you progress.

03

Learn as you go

Protein, macros, why the scale fibs some weeks. You'll finish understanding your own training and nutrition, with me in your corner the whole way.

Kind words

What my clients say

People think a personal trainer helps you change your body. The really special ones change the way you see yourself. Ashton has done both. She helped me believe that I was capable of so much more than I ever gave myself credit for… thank you for believing in me before I believed in myself.

Questions

Before you ask

Still not sure? Ask me directly. No question is a silly one.

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Do you only coach women?

I specialise in coaching women. Everything I do is built around female clients' goals: fat loss, muscle building and gym confidence. I coach online anywhere in the world, and in person at UltraFlex Durham.

Where do sessions take place?

Face-to-face at UltraFlex Gym in Durham. Online coaching works anywhere in the world.

I'm not in the UK. Does online coaching still work?

Yes. Plenty of my online clients are outside the UK. Your programme and nutrition live in the app, the weekly check-in is done in your own time, and message support works around your day, so time zones aren't a problem.

I've never lifted weights before. Is that a problem?

Not at all. Most of my clients start as complete beginners. I teach technique from scratch and no session assumes prior experience.

Do you offer online coaching?

Yes! You get a custom training programme in a proper coaching app, nutrition targets that fit your life, a real weekly check-in from me and message support in between, anywhere in the world. Everything about online coaching is here.

How much does it cost?

It depends on how often you train and whether you're in person or online. Book a free consultation and I'll recommend the right package for your goals and budget. No pressure, no hard sell.

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Training clips, client results, and proof that strong and feminine coexist.

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